The Meaning Behind the Message

617094_melting_hearts_3A chance encounter with a stranger can have a tremendous impact on our lives. One such encounter happened this past weekend.

My husband Mark and I attended a cultural event and struck up a conversation with a man whom we did not know. I commented about how beautiful – and perfect – the weather was this past weekend. He replied with a big smile, “Any day above ground is a good day for me!” His bright blue eyes sparkled as we laughed together and agreed how wonderful life is.

Dinner was about to begin, so we began walking together toward the dining room. Along the way, I began talking to another guest and her daughter. Mark continued talking with the man. Once in the dining room, Mark and I left our conversation partners to find our respective tables. We enjoyed a wonderful evening.

While driving home, Mark told me that during his one-on-one conversation with the man, he shared with Mark an important piece of information: During a recent medical check-up, his doctor confirmed that his cancer had returned, and that he has just four to five years left to live. His words, “Any day above ground is a good day for me!” were interpreted very differently now. The meaning behind the message had changed.

In our hurried lives, we rarely take the time to stop and talk to a stranger. On Sunday evening, Mark and I enjoyed a chance encounter with a man who changed our perspective, a man who is now no longer a stranger. We are grateful for that meeting. Who can you connect with to deepen your level of communication and relationship? Life is short. Do it now.